Monday, July 28, 2014

The Art of Being Alone (Blog)

Being alone. Some people can't stand it, some people can, to the point of enjoyment. When you're okay being alone, it's when you're ready to have someone in your life. Otherwise you will come across as needy, and that is unattractive. You have to find something you love doing. Something that you enjoy, something that doesn't require others' company. For example, I have a YouTube channel, and I enjoy making videos, I make one each day. I talk in them and let my thoughts out.

You have to find your own thing. Being alone is not the end of the world. There are so many things you can do to enjoy your time alone. Again, you just have to find your thing. When you're alone, there's zero drama. No being careful not to hurt the other person. You can be you at its fullest. Being alone is the best thing that ever happened to me. I get to know myself a little bit better. I do things that I like, without having to think if the other person will like it as well.

Being alone if a gift. The gift of being your own, at its fullest.